Then I met this guy I fell in love with. We met through a mutual friend. He is very okay but here is the thing - He worships with The Chosen, his family are very strong Deeper Life members.
Recently, we were on a date with his sister, she joined us from somewhere and it was my first time meeting her.
While we were chatting, somehow, religion came up (his sister brought it up). A lady wearing a very skimpy outfit had passed by and the sight pissed her off.
Personally, I was dressed in trousers with a very chic top.
As soon as the words "I don't really see anything wrong in ladies wearing trousers as long as it's decent" left my mouth, it was like her mission of conversion went into overdrive and for the next 15-20 minutes, she grilled me on why I wasn't going to make heaven for wearing trousers and wearing jewelries.
I was just dumbfounded.
My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship which may lead to marriage. But I'm worried that when we get married, I'd definitely have to sacrifice my own beliefs just to please his family, this one his sister is talking like this.
My boyfriend himself isn't that crazy about trousers, jewelries and all that. But his family will resent me if I don't change and that will just ruin the relationship in the long run.
Please, do you think this relationship will work?
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