You can quote me on this anywhere. There
is no Nigerian parent anywhere in the world that does not take pride in
their kids seeking out careers in Engineering, Medicine, Law, Financial
Service or the Corporate World or better still, The Holy Grail of the
Nigerian Dream, Oil. However, they frown heavily on any career that is
founded in entertainment or any other alternative career whatsoever.
Why? Personally, I have no idea, but that is just how, on average they
are. I suppose one can say that they believe that people who go into
the arts are those who were lacked the strengths and discipline to hack a
real profession. In comparison, in the UK or United States, parents
might be all right with their kids saying to them “ Mummy, I want to be
an actress”, however, say such to a Nigerian parent and she might not
take that very well.
However, dare I say, but the last couple
of years in Nigeria has experienced some sort of ‘Entertainment Boom’.
The Nigerian pop music has grown beyond the shores of the nation,
Nigerian comedians are selling out shows in London and of course, the
local movie industry dubbed ‘Nollywood’. Based on these successes, it is
now slowly (I stress the slowly in great deal) becoming all right for
Nigerians to say they are pursuing careers in alternative fields. Then
we have blogging, which is another new career path that has been crafted
and at the forefront of blogging is, lindaikeji.blogspot.com, which is fronted by Linda Ikeji.
In just four short years, Linda has
turned her blog into the number one source for information around
Nigerian pop culture. As, Americans have E-Online or maybe Perez or TMZ
or the British have Daily Mail, Nigerians have Linda Ikeji. Information
about your favorite singer, actress, personality even politics can be
found on the blog. By the way, her information is accurate, as I have
personally confirmed something she put up once. Rather than being your
typical gossip blog, she decided to use her blog, as a platform to
address what most Nigerians would describe as “taboo” issues. Her
ever-popular “Dear LIB readers…” address issues of masturbation, oral
sex, sexual desires, sex positions, frequency of intercourse. An example
is “Dear LIB readers: I’m addicted to sex toys, is that a bad thing?”
or normal issues like relationship problems, family squabbles, life
issues and so on, with “Dear LIB Readers: How do I get my in-laws out of
my home?” as an instance. Scroll down to the comment section and one
sees in shock, Nigerians commenting and commenting freely around these
taboo and non-taboo issues. Her blog has now become a place where people
can just be free and talk and not feel like someone is going to judge
them or wash their mouths with soap. Atimes, she raises these issues or
her readers send in questions and people discuss.
In this short time, she has become on of
the most influential Nigerian voices on the Internet, frequently doing
appearances round the world. If you happen to get featured on her blog,
be sure that you have arrived, because she commands hits in the many
thousands daily, hence, organizations rush after her for advert space
and pay her accordingly.
Why do we feature her on our blog? On our
blog we preach that in order to stand out, one should get their heads
out of the box and dare to be different, creative and innovative, and
also do something that we love. Miss Ikeji, got her head out the box and
did something different founded on something that she enjoyed and has
not only turned herself into a multimillionaire, but has also made it
acceptable for other people to follow alternative careers. She is a
lesson that we can all be successful in anything that we put our mind
to, be it the norm or not. Yes, even if naysayers say she is selling
gossip, but I will say that she is self-employed, she is not doing
anything illegal and in a country where unemployment rates are scary,
she has done very well for herself. At this rate, I will not be
surprised if she takes a page out of Oprah’s book very soon and starts a
talk show, magazines and so on.
She published a letter some months back
and I would say that after reading that, I was left inspired. In that
letter, she stated that just fours years’ back, she was practically flat
broke and now she was a multimillionaire from blogging. In that letter
she really encouraged her readers they can be anything they want to be
and also to never mind other opinions of others and focus on opinions of
themselves and never to allow people to tell them they are less than
who they are.
I leave with a quote from her letter….
“You can be anything you want to be. For all the dreamers out there, here’s something you need to know. The time while you’re waiting for your dreams to come true is not a bad time. All you have to do is keep moving, keep believing, keep fighting, keep working hard and keep praying.”
No comments :
Post a Comment