Hey guys, before you make that proposal find time to read this; If
you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife, deciding
if you’re ready to make the commitment to marriage is only half the
battle. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is
someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out. Love
alone is not enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics
are warning signs for a troubled marriagedown the road. Here are some
of the most obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material.
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1. She cuts you off from loved ones:
1. She cuts you off from loved ones:
A girlfriend who always becomes sick when it's time to spend quality
time with your family and even forbids you from hanging out with your
friends will only act worse after you say your vows.
2. She bails on you when times get tough Life isn’t always a bowl of
cherries, but that doesn't mean that the woman in your life should just
disappear when the times get tough. If your girlfriend is not supportive
of you emotionally through difficult times and only stands by you when
things are going good, she's not the one you should be walking down the
aisle with.
3. She displays psychotic behaviors:
A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and insanity might not be the best person to swear your undyingloyalty to. If she displays severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of influence her crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future. Marrying a woman like this will most likely ruin your life and your perception of women forever.
4. She's too clingy
3. She displays psychotic behaviors:
A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and insanity might not be the best person to swear your undyingloyalty to. If she displays severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of influence her crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future. Marrying a woman like this will most likely ruin your life and your perception of women forever.
4. She's too clingy
If your girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do anything without you, calls
you twenty times a day and destroys any chance of you missing her
because because the two of you are never apart, she’s going to make a
bad wife.
5. She has nothing going on for herself
5. She has nothing going on for herself
You should want to marry a woman who has goals and brings something
better to your life, not one who is up to her neck in debt, has no
income, displays unpredictable behaviors and has tried numerous,
short-lived career paths yet never knows what she wants in life. This
type of fickle lifestyle could derail your own life plan as well.
6. She's controlling
6. She's controlling
If your girlfriend controls all of your conversations, constantly forces
you into agreeing with her and acts as an overbearing, emotional bully,
it’ll only get worse after you say "I do."
7. She's already cheated on you
7. She's already cheated on you
Do you honestly believe that a woman is marriage material if she has
been unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes, a person can always
change and learn from their mistakes; however, a cheating girlfriend
will more than likely continue to be unfaithful after marriage.
8. Her libido doesn't match yours
8. Her libido doesn't match yours
Another sign that she'll make a bad wife is if her libido differs wildly
from yours. The way you relate to each other in the bedroom has a big
influence on whether the two of you will stay together after wedding
vows are exchanged, so it’s best to work this out before you walk down
the aisle.
9. She's extremely jealous
9. She's extremely jealous
Although a little bit of jealousy is essential for a healthy
relationship, extreme jealousy arises in a relationship because of high
levels of insecurity. If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who
comes near you, refuses to accept that you have female friends and feels
threatened when you discuss your previous relationships, putting a ring
on her finger is not going to make her more secure.
10. She can't admit when she's wrong
If she always seems to have the upper hand in arguments, refuses to admit her faults or even treat you as an equal, she's not the marrying kind.
10. She can't admit when she's wrong
If she always seems to have the upper hand in arguments, refuses to admit her faults or even treat you as an equal, she's not the marrying kind.
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